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AUGUST 2002

My garden, July 2002Aaaah, August...the peak of summer...for the rest of North America who are sweltering in the heat think of us here in Calgary...it SNOWED on the first of August! The sun is back today, but it does make us appreciate the nice days even more.

The back to school ads have started in the paper and on TV They depress the kids as they realize the summer is coming to a close. They depress me as I try to, once again, figure out how to come up with the cash for clothes, supplies, and school fees.

In this issue we make our final summer salute of 2002 with two more great recipes for the out doors, and an article on keeping the summer mess out and the toys in order. Also, this month instead of my final "ramblings" paragraph we've got an introduction to a great new book on the market to aid parents in handling visitation, it's a must read for any parent involved with visitation.

As usual, I'd like to take this moment to welcome all of our new subscribers and bid a 'welcome back' to our returning ones.


IN THIS MONTHS ISSUE:

AUGUST'S RECIPES

We have a new recipe data base where all the old recipes off of the website and the old newsletters are in one easy to search area. Check it out here and feel free to add your favourite recipe to it also.

Shredded Pork

2 pork shoulder or butts, which ever is on sale

1 cup

gingerale
2 onions
4 bottles Good BBQ Sauce (KC Masterpiece, Bullseye, or similar)
To taste

Tabasco Sauce

  • Cut the meat off the bones and fill up a crock pot.

  • Cut the onions in half and add to the meat.
  • Pour 1 cup of the Gingerale over it.
  • Cook on low 12 hours
  • Take out the meat, remove the onions and juices.
  • Shred the meat and return it to the pot.

  • Mix in three of the bottles of BBQ sauce and Tabasco to taste.
  • Cook on low for another 5 to 6 hours, adding more sauce as needed
  • Put in the fridge and eat later on a bun -- cold or hot!


Cucumber & Onion Salad

2 medium cucumbers, peeled and thinly sliced
2

medium red onions, thinly sliced

1/4 tsp salt
1 cup cold water
1 cup sugar
1 cup

white vinegar

  • In a non-metal bowl, layer the cucumbers and onions.
  • In another nonmetal bowl, mix water, sugar and vinegar.
  • Stir sugar until dissolved into the mixture.
  • Pour over cucumbers and onions.
  • Cover bowl and chill in refrigerator overnight.

 


CORRALLING THE KIDS' BEACH TOYS

You don't have to be summering in the Hamptons to find yourself suddenly surrounded by a collection of summer toys, ranging from old-fashioned striped beach balls to torpedo-shaped floaters to boogie boards. All sorts of lurid plastic "today" colors are strewn afoot the yard. Even the most commonplace home 1,500 miles from any ocean can quickly become a sand trap of summer toys, and yet there are ways of keeping things in order without wrecking your home's design.

First of all, remember that summer is a temporary condition. Even if you live in Florida or southern California, the conditions that make summer great fun – primarily school vacation – will be gone faster than a popsicle in a heat wave come September.

As with any temporary condition in your home, it's best to corral the items in question into one convenient spot, preferably near the door, just as you do with winter boots and mittens. In fact, this approach is a good one to work with in any aspect of your home design: think of the function not only of the room, but of the items you're trying to organize.

For example, if you want to organize home office things, keep them all in the area of the desk: all paper, pens, paperclips, and staples always go back to the desk. The phone book should, of course, live close enough to the phone so that you can use it, easily, while dialing.

The trouble with something like summer items is that you won't be integrating them into your home, because before you know it there won't be a use for them.

Because beach toys are used outdoors, the best place to keep them is by the main doorway into the house that the family really uses. This will cut down on sand being tracked into the home, and it will cut down on you having to holler at the kids to take their things to their rooms.

One decorative and handy way of storing beach things is the time-honored fish netting, available at most larger hardware stores or outdoor supply shops. It's simple to put up: just screw a couple of heavy-duty hooks into the wall and hang the netting from them, then fill with toys and other items. One advantage to this is that anything damp will be able to dry, as the air circulates so easily that mold won't collect.

Another problem in summer, whether you're on the coast of an ocean or just a lake side, is the collection of sand in the house.

The most obvious solution here is to make sure there is some kind of a trapping device by the door; we recommend a heavy-duty doormat, such as one made of thick sisal, for the outside. Having one doormat outside the door, and another, lighter-gauge mat inside, will add a double layer of protection.

You can then encourage your kids to actually remove their sandy shoes at the door by installing some handy shoe holder, whether it's a wicker basket or a shoe-holder. Using a basket as the advantage of being easy – the kids don't need to worry about neatly placing their sneakers and sandals in a rack; rather, they can just toss them in and head to the kitchen for a hard-earned lemonade.

Keeping a broom, dustpan and small trash can by the door, or a hand-held vacuum, will help even more.

And then, just remember that before you know it, you'll be hitting the back-to-school sales and riffling through the sweaters you have stored in the attic.

–Sarah Van Arsdale
Copyright © 2002
Sheffield School of Interior Design
211 East 43rd St. New York, NY 10017
(212) 661-7270 Fax: (212) 867-8122


LIVING WITH A VISITATION SCHEDULE AFTER THE DIVORCE

The Visitation Handbook: Your Complete Guide to Parenting Apart
is the only book on the market that deals with how to live with and manage a visitation schedule after the divorce is over. This groundbreaking book contains hands-on, practical advice for both custodial and non-custodial parents and is written by a matrimonial and family law attorney and mediator.

The book is designed in a "flip" format. One half is for parents with custody of the children and the other half is for non-custodial parents. The book offers real-life solutions for dealing with the day-to-day issues that can derail a visitation plan.

The Visitation Handbook is created to stop the family court "revolving door" syndrome that causes turmoil in families and is so difficult for children. The book focuses on solving the problems that send parents back to court and it helps parents focus on the true purpose of visitation: giving your child a life with two parents.

Topics Include:

  • Dealing with holidays
  • Understanding how visitation changes as children age
  • Managing the visitation schedule
  • Altering the visitation schedule
  • Making visitation a part of your life
  • Communicating with your child
  • Talking to the other parent
  • Setting rules for yourself
  • Dealing with long distance parenting
  • Thinking of things to do during visitation
  • The book also includes detailed resource sections for both custodial and non-custodial parents. A separate resource section is included for Canadian parents.

Brette McWhorter Sember is the author of eight self-help law books and is a former attorney/mediator. She is also a freelance writer and writes often about parenting and families. Her work has appeared in over 130 publications and on many web sites.

Sourcebooks, Inc.
Fax 630-961-2168 o 800-432-7444
www.sourcebooks.com

Well folks, that's it for another month. As usual, if you have any suggestions or contributions let me know! We're always up to suggestions and recipes sent in also have the chance to be included on the website.

Jill Lassaline, editor
Single Parents World



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