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Backwash Approved!

JUNE 2002

Bring on the Summer!!It's finally June. The month where school ends and summer REALLY begins!

To our Single Dad's and our Mom's who play the Dad role Father's Day is coming up and may it be a good one for all of you!

This month brings two easy pasta recipes just in time for summer cook outs. On our message board last week the question was asked "what do I do with pasta?" other than the old stand by of red sauce. Many suggestions were given on the message board and we've managed to bring you two great new ones in this issue.

The Sheffield School of Design in New York shares another great article with us this month. This time they address the issues of organizing your busy kids.

As usual, I'd like to take this moment to welcome all of our new subscribers and bid a 'welcome back' to our returning ones.


IN THIS MONTHS ISSUE:

 


JUNE'S RECIPES

Quick and easy Summer Time Recipes. These are in response to an area on our message board where someone asked "what else can I do with all this pasta?!"

Ham And Pasta Skillet

1 canbroccoli cheese soup
1 Cup milk
1 tsp spicy brown mustard
2 c fresh broccoli florets
3 c cooked medium shell
-macaroni; (2 cups dry)
1 1/2 ccooked ham; cut into thin
-strips
 Plum slices & Fresh Mint (optional)
  • In 10-inch skillet, combine soup, milk, mustard, and broccoli.
  • Over medium heat, heat to boiling, stirring often.
  • Reduce heat to low.
  • Cover;cook 5 minutes or until broccoli is tender, stirring often.
  • Add macaroni and ham.
  • Heat through, stirring often.
  • Garnish with plum slices and fresh mint if desired


Lemony Chicken Pasta Toss

2 TBSP cornstarch
1 can or one cup clear chicken broth
2 TBSP Lemon juice
1 TBSP Dijon mustard
1/2 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp olive or vegetable oil
1 lbskinless boneless chicken breast; cut into strips or cut up left over chicken stripped from the bone
 3 TBSP fresh parsley; chopped
or
1 TBSP dried parsley flakes
4 cups hot cooked thin spaghetti;
-(8 oz dry)
  • In small bowl, stir together cornstarch, broth, lemon juice, mustard, and garlic powder until smooth. Set aside.
  • In 10-inch skillet over medium-high heat, in hot oil, cook half of chicken until browned, stirring often.
  • Remove; set aside.
  • Repeat with remaining chicken.
  • Pour off fat.
  • Reduce heat to medium.
  • In same skillet, add reserved cornstarch mixture.
  • Cook until mixture boils and thickens, stirring constantly.
  • Return chicken to skillet.
  • Heat through, stirring occasionally.
  • Stir in parsley. Toss with spaghetti.
  • If desired, garnish with fresh parsley and lemon.

 

ORGANIZING YOUR BUSY KIDS

Some kids, we know, are fabulously organized. My niece, for example. Every gift-giving occasion for the past three years, I've given her a charm for her charm bracelet, and every time, she runs upstairs and comes back with the original white cardboard box she keeps tucked away on the right side of the bottom drawer of her dresser.

And then there's her brother, and my other niece, and countless other children who are more absorbed in the process of growing up than they are in the details of where to keep their belongings. Across the land, we can all hear the weekend call of parents everywhere, from cramped New York apartments to capacious California ranches: "Clean up your room!"

But maybe there's something more you can do to help your kid get organized than to join in the weekly battle cry.

Remember that the problem of disorganization, among kids as well as among adults, is that we simply don't have enough time, and we don't use the time we do have well.

You might want to start seeing time as an investment, and teach your kids to do the same. If you take one second now to hang up that shirt, it will save you 15 minutes later when you have to locate it, iron it, and then hang it up anyway.

But there are also some concrete ways you can help your kid get organized.

This is the time to think systems. There are plenty of good closet organizers out there, including custom closet designers who come to your home, consult with you, take measurements, and then come back and magically change that jumble of junk into neatly shelved things that you can actually find and use.

Then, on a more practical level, there are the cheaper models that you buy for yourself at a housewares store.

To use these, first sit down with your child - if you can find a place to sit in his room - and talk about the stuff that makes up his life. He has his soccer ball and uniform and cleats, his baseball card collection, his clothing, his miniature Foosball game, and then the assorted little things that get scattered around: hackey sacks and hockey pucks and baseballs and yesterday's peanut butter sandwich. Oh yeah, and then there are the school books.

Start by categorizing things: Sports, Hobbies, Toys, Clothing, Food. Come up with the categories that make sense for your kid, with his help. The more he feels that he's part of this process, the greater the likelihood he'll keep up with the later organization.

Next, measure his closet, and take measurements of the rest of the room. Don't forget to bring these with you to the housewares store, and bring your kid, too, no matter how much he might protest. Get him involved, if you possibly can, in choosing what kind of organizers he'll have.

At the housewares store you'll find an array of shelving units, bookcases, stackable drawers, and other things. Make sure you compare the measurements carefully to those you've taken in the room, and when you get home, you should be able to set up the system yourself.

Many of these systems are adjustable, so that if your kid gives up soccer and takes up field hockey, the shelves can be moved around to accommodate a hockey stick instead of a soccer ball.

As you're organizing the kid's room, think of how often certain things are used, and think too of the items that might need to be rotated, just as you put away your summer things in the fall and your winter things come spring. So too you can put the off-season sports equipment in the back of the closet and the currently used stuff up front.

It will help to have a couple of drawers or boxes for the small items that can be so easily scattered around the house: the baseballs and yo-yos and dog toy and precious Coke bottle the significance of which still eludes you.

Organizing your kid's room doesn't have to mean changing his personality. You can, indeed, appreciate who he is while helping him to organize things just a little more. This investment of time will pay off later, when both you and your kid no longer have to waste time arguing about room clean up, and instead can spend some time actually playing with that mini Foosball game.


–Sarah Van Arsdale
Copyright © 2002
Sheffield School of Interior Design
211 East 43rd St. New York, NY 10017
(212) 661-7270 Fax: (212) 867-8122




RAMBLINGS

 

Single Parent Stress. What do you do about it? Yes, any form of parenting has its stresses but the single parent lacks the fall back of a partner to share the stress and to simply talk to.

Stress is not something to be ashamed of, it is normal to feel overwhelmed and maybe even a little depressed over your situation.

What you do need to do is find both release and support for yourself. Release can be as easy as hitting the tub with a book or some music to unwind. Go for a walk, do a favourite craft -- anything that will provide some YOU time.

Support can come in many forms. A Neighbour you can dump your feelings to, a family member, a telephone support line, a support group or even an online group.

What you can not let yourself do is sit home and basically wallow in your own stress and/or depression. Isolation and no form for release can make a situation go from not so bad to very bad in a short manner of time.

Not all communities have support groups and not everyone these days are friends with their neighbours. I'd suggest if you're home feeling overwhelmed or depressed DO stop by our message board or drop me an email and we can either chat or I'll help you find something in your area.

Even though it might feel like it late at night, you are NOT alone in this.

Well folks, that's it for another month. As usual, if you have any suggestions or contributions let me know! We're always up to suggestions and recipes sent in also have the chance to be included on the website.

Jill Lassaline, editor
Single Parents World



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